While we comb (and cry) our way through the entries for our “I’m Glad You Were Born” giveaway, it’s become quite clear our Cotton Babies community is filled with great parents and caregivers. While we are busy trying to select the best of the best of those entries, we’d like to share a little giveaway fun with you.
To enter today’s blog giveaway for your chance to win one of our prize packs, leave a comment on this blog post sharing what you think makes you “one good mum” or dad. Go ahead, brag on yourself! Are you a great cook, energetic storyteller, the best boo-boo kisser ever? Share with us what makes you a great parent.
Eligible entries must be posted today, Tuesday, May 17, 2011. U.S. Residents only. Void where prohibited by law. No purchase necessary to win. Winners will be drawn at random on Wednesday, May 18, 2011 and notified via e-mail. (Please make sure Cotton Babies staff can see your e-mail in your comment or through your Blogger profile page, please.)
About the Author
Heather is mom to four, born within 40 months (single, twins, single). She writes transparently about her chaotic household to encourage others through the twists and turns of parenting.
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I’m a good mom because I’m informed. I try and make the best decisions about my children’s health, even if it’s not in the mainstream way of thinking. I let my kids be kids and I LOVE to cook for them. I have a lot of flaws, but I put my kids first and we have a lot of fun! <3 I love being a mom, and even if I'm not perfect my 4 year old says that I am "the bestest mommy in the whole world!"
I’ve only been a mom for about a month, but at this point I’d say my greatest strength is my patience – both with my daughter and with her dad. 😉
I’m a good mum because I love my girls unconditionally and show them that love through spending quality time with them.
It’s hard to brag on myself, ya know?! 🙂 I’ll say that I’m a good mum because we get compliments from many different people, familiar ones and strangers alike, that our little girl (just over 2) has great manners. I’m proud that we’ve made “please” and “thank you” a priority in our house and it shows!
I think I am a good mom because I am a very empathetic person. I was raised by a single mother on disability. She taught me to never be bitter but rather to be grateful for what we did have and to always be empathetic and nonjudgemental towards others and I hope to pass those traits on to my children. To see the good in people for who they are in not the situations people find themselves in. And to never judge but always to extend a hand to those who need you.
I’m a great laughing buddy to my silly little 2 year old! 🙂
just.enough.for.the.journey@gmail.com
There are lots of things we do each day or give up that make us great. However the one thing that I feel is the moat important is I can admit when I’m wrong and see where I can improve abd do better! Stephaniescherling@gmail.com
I try to spend time playing with my younger children every day and time talking to my oldest every day. I also try to instill ‘old fashioned’ values such as etiquette, proper speech of a lady, etc.
I have found complete joy in motherhood. I am super proud that I have been able to make decisions about how I am going to parent and I have stuck to it. Cloth diapering is just one of those decisions I’ve made!
I’m a good mum because I love to learn! I love to read and learn about various topics, educating myself on what’s out there in order to make my best educated, well-informed decisions. 🙂
I do all sorts of goofy things to make my little one grin – he makes it easy to be a good mum!
joannaharrold@gmail.com
I’m a good mum because I don’t reward bad behavior. It would be easy to give in to the tantrum of the moment but I find loving ways to correct and redirect. carriethegood (at) gmail (dot) com
Thanks for the great blog!
I like what April said–having a husband who is a great dad makes a world of difference! Really, I make a lot of mistakes but lean hard on the grace of God, pray for wisdom, pray for my children, and strive to love my children and teach them and raise them well. I try to focus not on being a “good” mom necessarily, because that tends to be about my feelings and feeling like a good mom, but rather asking myself what my kids need to learn, how they need to be disciplined, if their needs are being met, if they’re cheerful and obedient, etc.
Hmm. I really try to make sensitive, informed decisions about motherhood and my baby, even when the choice isn’t the “normal” thing to do. Also I like to sing sing sing to make my little dude smile! 🙂
jewellbird03 at gmail dot com
I’m one great mum because of my daughter. She is so amazing that I am constantly in awe of her and because of that I am always trying to be a better mother, wife, cook, etc.
My baby is 10 weeks old and we had major feeding issues for the first 4 weeks of his little life. The fact that I stuck with breastfeeding because I knew it was the best for my baby makes me think I’m a good mom!
I’m a good mum because I have a great husband who is a great dad! 🙂
I read to my kids, I read in front of my kids and I believe instilling a love of reading in my children makes me a good mom.
Thanks!
angiedkelly at gmail dot com
I’m a good mum for lots of reasons! LOL, I’m not perfect, but I love my boys (and soon to be baby girl)and keep their health, happiness and safety at the top of my priorities.
I’m most proud of how hard I work to be frugal so that I can stay home with my daughter. By cloth diapering, making my own baby food and now cooking healthy frugal meals from scratch, not buying myself many new clothes and doing without a lot of other things. We make it work. We don’t take vacations, or have cable TV or cell phones either. I know not every parent can stay home, but for us, me being home was a priority and I’ve given up a lot to do it. I felt like it was the best gift I could give her.
Far from perfect here, but I try to instill a greater worldview within my 3-year-old daughter, helping her understand how some people in the world don’t have enough food, or clean water, or a roof over their heads–and how we can not only be grateful that we do, but that we should strive to help those who don’t. I also try to point her to God each day–telling her that He made her and all that is around her, and sharing with her His heart for her and for mankind. She’s just 3 but is a little sponge, and it’s one of my greatest privileges in life to pour into her and point her to the big world beyond.
I think that I am a good mom because not only do I do things to keep my baby healthy (breastfeed), but I also do things to keep myself healthy (exercise, eat healthy food) and to keep the earth happy (cloth diaper, hangdry items). I also spend time listening to my baby on a daily basis, trying to be in tune with his needs and aware of what he is sharing with me.
I try to be the best mom that I can. I breastfeed and cloth diaper because that is what I believe is the best for my son’s health. I nurture and babywear and hold because I want to provide for his emotional being. I play and teach to encourage his mental development. I love every second I am with my son because it is what is best for my emotional and mental well being. I am a good mom because the love I have for my son is immeasurable and he is such a wonderful little person that I can’t imagine being anything else but a good mom to my spectacular little boy
I gave up my job as sous/pastry chef and a cross country move so that I could have a healthy happy baby boy. We’ve since moved out of the city onto a ranch where I grow and forage about 90% of our food. I love being a mom and teaching my son about nature and life. I don’t know if I’m a great mom but I like to think I’m doing something right!
I give the best cuddles and kisses! And I breastfed my baby till he self weaned!
jrderatany @ gmail . com
I rock at being a mom because I love it! My baby girl is the most amazing person I have ever met so it is easy to spend all my time and energy to making an awesome life for her. She is THE priority and before I make any decision, I think of her first. We make everyday a blessed adventure!!
bsmowlee@gmail.com
I think I’m a good Mom because enjoy spending time with my kids… we do everything together:)
I’m a good mama because the kiddo gets an all-you-can-eat buffet, delivered fresh 24 hours a day!
I don’t often think that I’m a good mother, but my kids think I’m the greatest thing since sliced cheese (and they freaking love cheese!).
I guess that makes me a good one! 🙂
Mandylea82 at gmail dot com
I encourage independence and my kids are often doing things for themselves much earlier than their peers as a result.
jenicagirl at yahoo dot com
What I think makes me a good mother are the same attributes that I see in my own mother. Although, she is what I consider a high level mom so hopefully, with more than 3 years of practice I’ll start to achieve her level of success.
Mostly, though, she is kind and patient and can make the most unhappy tasks and chores fun. And I try to do the same for my kids – factor extra time in the morning if we need to leave so there is time to play a bit before the shoes have to go on or a few extra moments for the toddler to attempt to put on his own shoes. I try not to hurry them. Or, make eating veggies fun by asking them to eat like a giraffe gobbles leaves.
I hope when my kids are grown they remember me as being kind and patient and that I wore a smile every day because they put one on my face.
I think that I am good mother because I demonstrate consistency and a laid back attitude. Consistency is definitely a challenge when the toddler gets up out of time out for the tenth time, but it is so important. My kids are older now, 18, 16, 14, and 12 and we have a new baby boy who is 2 months old. The laid back part of me tries to ignore the pile of dishes in the sink and the unswept floor as I sit and nurse the baby. For I know all too well how fast they grow and can hardly believe that my daughter will be going to college this fall. I enjoy every moment of our baby and know that too soon we will have to start the consistency again 🙂
douglauraneal at windstream dot net
I think the fact that I am always trying to make healthy decisions for my kids makes me a good mom. RESEARCH!
sradke1024 at gmail dot com
What makes me a good mom?… I try and I love unconditionally. I try my hardest to be the best attachment parenting mommy I can be.. we co-sleep, breastfeed (even through the first 3.5 months after my DS was born & having thrush), use a sling, and really just try to do the best we can to raise our DS with God. But, in all honesty, I would not be the mom that I am without having the best support system of my husband/DS’ father… He does EVERYTHING he can to make my job easier as a wife and mother.. they are my world. We both make mistakes, but as long as we try, love unconditionally, and LEARN from our mistakes… I think we are being the best we can be!
I feel that I’m a good mom because I am trying to ensure she learns true “old school” family culture. Dinner together at night, that sort of thing. I also feel like I am a good mom because I take what I can and put it back into what she needs instead of what I need.
brandii @ babyshopaholics dot com
Before I was even thinking about having kids I started thinking about and preparing to be the best mom I could possibly be. I have to say that what makes me one good mum is that I began doing what was best for my children before they were even born, as a demonstration of my love for them. From the moment of conception with both of my children I began to learn and practice true selflessness and self-sacrifice by putting their needs first and above my own. I have never taken the easy way out, not to be some sort of super-mom, but only to know that I am doing what is going to benefit my children most. There is so much in this big bad world that is out of my control as a mother so I choose to make the most of the things that are in my control. I took better care of myself during my pregnancies than during any other time in my life. I educated myself and prepared for 9 months so that I could bring my children into this world naturally because that was best for them, not easiest for me. I struggled for months with breastfeeding yet I stuck with it through all of the challenges, pain, full-time job, etc. because I wanted my babies to be the healthiest they possibly could be. Even though I still consider myself a new mom and still have a long way to go, I know these choices are what make me a good one mainly because the people that I admire and respect the most have commended me on them repeatedly. So every time I make a choice as a mom that is a mistake, because yes- all moms make mistakes, I remind myself of how many touch choices I made for the benefit of my kids and that encourages me to keep it up! I never knew there was a love like this before!
I’m a good mom for entering this for my daughter! but I’m an even better grandma with a closet full of dress-up clothes, books to read, games to play, arms to hug and ice cream in the freezer 🙂
vkc922 at cox dot net
I am the best mom! I love my son Joshua with all my heart. He is 18 months old. I am working on my own health so I can be the best mom to him for many years to come. He is healthy and strong and gets the best nutrition I can provide. Yes, it is not all the best of the best… sometimes to keep moms sanity we go to McDonalds on the way to bible study, but that is alright everyonce in a blue. I let him be himself, discover nature and all there is to learn. I am his mom and he gives the best sloppy wet kisses to me and I love every moment of it. :)I am mom, hear me roar!! 🙂 Josefa Pena
I’m a good mom and a changed person for being a mom – after giving birth to a babe at 23 weeks I have learned how to advocate for my son – and now for his 6 day old baby brother!
lisa dot ann dot q at gmail dot com
I’m a great mom because I’m showing my kids the importance of great nutrition and exercise by growing our own vegetables and daily family walks. It’s so important to get a good start.
I think I’m a good mum because I love to laugh. My little girl and I laugh and smile all the time together 🙂
schramm.mary at gmail dot com
I think I am a good mum because I don’t take any time with the baby for granted.
jennifercausby at hotmail dot com
It’s hard to toot your own horn. I’d like to think I’m a good Mom for always being available for my kiddos, being there when they need me and putting their needs above my own. It is working out for us so far.
I know I’m a good mom when I see my daughters being such great moms…and I know where they learned how. Of course I’m just their conduit because I learned how to be a good mom from my own terrific mom!
I’m a good mom because I love to make learning fun for my 17 month old. As a former teacher, I love to see kids learn, and it’s even more amazing when it’s your own child. I love playing and talking and reading all day and she is just like a little sponge!
I feel like I’m a good mom when I can recognize my failures as a parent, take a step back, and start over…trying each day to pick myself up and (with the grace of God) be the best mom possible to my precious children.
monnimusic@yahoo.com
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I feel like I am a “Good Mum” because I am old fashioned when it comes to many things and I am attentive to my kids’ lives. I have 5 children ages 15 down to 6 months. I make a home cooked meal every day from scratch, even the bread, and we all eat together at the table. This is when we can catch up on school, activities, etc. I require my kids to only get 1 hour of tv and/or computer. I make evening be cuddle, love, games, reading, etc. I also feel I am a good mum because I make sure my kids are learning good values through giving, volunteering, recycling, growing our vegetables, re-using, etc. My older kids see me breastfeeding, cloth diapering, baby wearing, so hopefully they will carry that on when they are parents. I also make sure that we participate as a family in our Native American Culture to the fullest extent we can.
mmjohnson555@gmail.com
I don’t know if I feel comfortable bragging about myself, but I love reading to/with my boys.
i feel im a ‘good mum’ because of all the sacrafices i have and will continue to make for my children, the unconditional love and affection i give them, and the loving family i have brought them into! <3 i love being a mom!
I “listen” to my 9-month-old son. He let’s me know what he needs and I always do my best to oblige.
olivia at jrhdesign dot com
I’m waiting patiently to experience all that being a good mum entails, four weeks to go. I think that thanks to all the great examples of good mums in my life, I should be great.
I’m a good mum because I keep myself educated! I breastfeed, extended rear face, cloth diaper, etc. because in my research, I have determined that these are best for my babies. I hope they appreciate it, lol.
floscarmeli at gmail dot com
Oh, this is hard to brag on myself…..I am a good mom because I devote each day to being with my 3 month old son. I took a leave from work so I could spend each day talking to, reading, playing, walking, massaging, and loving him for every minute.
abennett@valornet.com
I feel I am a good mom because I know I am not perfect but completely love my babies and try to make each day a special one. We never know what each day will bring and I never want my babies to question if their momma loved them. bnfjess@sccglobal.net
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I am a good mom because I always try to do what’s best for my kids and I love them unconditionally. I know I’m not perfect and I make mistakes but being a mom is an ever changing job and I am most definitely learning as I go. I am so thankful God has given me such wonderful kids to learn and grow with!
beccajmann at gmail dot com
The ways in which I’m a “good mum” show in the sacrifices I make for my children: breastfeeding through difficulties, night wakings, and living on one income are just a few of the ways.
I’m the best “goo goo gahg-er” u will ever meet! Hehe! And I pray… I never stop praying:)
I’m a good Mom because I feel like that is what I was born to be. Every time Betty smiles at me and I smile back, there is just this knowing that we were always meant to be together.
juttaGeisele@hotmail.com
I know I’m supposed to “brag on myself” so I’m kind of breaking the rules here, but the truth is that my stash is huge and I really want to win this giveaway to give the prize to my sister! SHE is a great mom because she works a full-time job every day while I stay home with her sweet boy and all my kids. She comes home and plans meaningful activities to do with him and tries to have him with her as much as humanly possible with her busy schedule. She is cloth diapering mostly for financial reasons and she’s doing a great job. Her husband took a job 6 hours away in January, but because she’s a teacher, she had to stay here for the duration of her school-year contract, which is now up in one week. 🙁 So on top of her busyness and hard work with my nephew, she’s also been living away from her husband for the last four months! I’ll miss her so much, but I know she’s excited to reunite their family soon. I would LOVE to win this (I know, I know, it’s random) to send her off with this great addition to her little stash! Thanks for another great giveaway!! 🙂
I think I’m a good Mommy because besides trying to be a really good Mommy, I work just as hard to be a good wife. I think it’s important for my son to see a loving Mommy and Daddy, not only to him, but to each other.
jacquelyn.moll@att.net
I’m a good momma because I’m still gonna post hundreds of pictures of my adorably cute baby on facebook no matter how much people make fun of me.
And because ths entry took 25 minutes, a dead internet, and 2 computers to complete…and I still did it at 2am!
I’m a good mom because of my wonderful singing voice!! My baby girl smiles every time I sing to her…
I am certainly not a perfect Mommy, but I love my little girlie with all my heart and try to always do what is best for her! I love being a mommy! myanneball@hotmail.com
my email is meeghan.rayner@sbcglobal.net forgot to include it in my comment…thanks
I am a good mommy becasue according to my three and five year old girls, “I let them play on the computer and give them candy” 🙂
Even though my patience fails me sometimes, I try my best to meet/encourage their individual needs/personalities.
I’m one good mom because I am super patient. How could I get annoyed by that cute face (even if it is screaming nonstop)
I’m a great daddy because I will play make-believe with my son for 3 hours or more at a time.
demimo at cox dot net
I am a good mommy to my two boys because I love them unconditionally and put them first before anything. I will fight for them and be there for them always. I love them!
dmoretti1967 at yahoo.com
I have only been a mother for one month, but I would do anything for my sweet baby boy. I spent 15 weeks on bedrest keeping him safe, and I would to it again in a heartbeat.
I’m nursing one of my 7 month old twins while I type this (the other is sleeping), and just sat my 3 year old down with some pancakes. I’m one good mother because I am doing my best! Even (especially) when things are hard, I give them love and attention every day and do my best.
I think I’m a good mum to my newly one year old because I constantly strive to be a better mom. I know I am not the best mom I could be, and it is my goal to get there one day. I thought when I was pregnant with him that being an awesome mom would come naturally for me. While the unconditional love was, of course, natural, completely revamping my life around the little guy was not an easy adjustment. No sleep, a constantly messy house, no time to just sit down and enjoy a good book were adjustments we all think we are ready for until the time comes to actually lose those things. I work each day at including him in all the things that I need to do, and really look forward to when he is able to understand how much mommy enjoys cooking, cleaning, and reading with him. His smile lights up my day, and lets me now just how good a mum I am.
I’m one good mom–my kids tell me so! I’m only human so it is nice to know that with all my faults and imperfections that my kids know above all else that they are loved and that makes me a good mom. 🙂
I’m actually not a mom just yet. We are expecting this October. But I think I will be a good mom because I really try to stay even-keeled as much as possible and I really enjoy the small stuff.
I feel like the way my husband and I have started discipline at such an early age we have a wonderfully behaved 2 year old. People complain about the terrible twos … I have a (for the most part) delightful two year old … although it didn’t come without tears on both ends!
allyson.long@yahoo.com
My 21 month old son makes me feel like super-mom when he comes up to me out of the blue to give me a kiss, then just goes back to playing. It’s like he just had to stop to ‘say’ i love you. He’s the sweetest. I also have a two month old who is EBF and he’s always in my arms. I get a lot of comments from family like ‘You better put him down while he’s asleep, you’ll be sorry.’ Well that just couldnt be farther from the truth. I love holding him whether he’s asleep or not, wearing and snuggling him as much as I can and being the one to comfort him when he’s upset. When I have two happy babies I definitely feel like I’m doing something right.
I feel like the way my husband and I have started discipline at such an early age we have a wonderfully behaved 2 year old. People complain about the terrible twos … I have a (for the most part) delightful two year old … although it didn’t come without tears on both ends!
My patience makes me a good mom. There is no greater test of a mother than driving in traffic with a screaming newborn and a whining toddler! I have come to learn that in the moment there is nothing I can do, but as soon as we get home they get all of my attention.
The only thing that makes me a good mom is the Lord- period! Without Him, I am a mess, with Him, I can look to His lead and pray daily for strength, courage, and compassion to mother my children well 🙂
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My little girl will be 10 months old on Friday. I still have so much to learn, but I take pride in getting the best & biggest giggles out of her. It seems I either have a knack for tickling her funny bone, or maybe she just loves me back as much as I love her. 🙂
sarajowaldron@gmail.com
Hello!
I’m a new mom (4 months) and I think I am a good mom because I am learning to trust my mama instincts & be present with my daughter in each moment I can…the moments go by so fast, you have to savour them!
Thanks!
Dagmar B.
sirentattoo@hotmail.com
You know what…I’m a really awesome fort builder!
melissalennig@gmail.com = One good Mum!
Being in the midst of learning to breastfeed our 3.5 week old, I have to save I’m one good mom for not giving up. One good mom enduring the pain for the health of my child. I also love it when my 4 year old asks for water or a healthy veggie versus cake. So one good mom for teaching encouraging healthy eating habits, which meant changing my own habits 2 years ago too.
michelle (at)traditionalsimplicity(dot)com
I know I’m far from a perfect mom, but I love my beautiful daughters with all my heart and I would do anything for them. Sometimes there are rough days, but I know they love me and I love them. A hug, kiss, and “I love you mommy” – is the greatest feeling in the world!
annie8cu at yahoo dot com
I am a GREAT mom! It’s the one job I do my best at… I make each decision with time and care. That is how I started cloth diapering. We needed to save money and it’s so much better for my babies b/c they don’t have the chemicals in them like disposables. I also breastfeed and babywear for similar reasons. In all honesty I have never met a mom who takes as much time and care for the decisions with their kids. I may even overthink things! and because I put so much into being a mom it REALLY hurts me that for the last 2 years (out of the 3 that I’ve been a mom) my husband didn’t do ANYTHING for me for mother’s day.. not even a card.
I feel like a good mom when I read to my kids – I love reading stories aloud, and like to think that I’m pretty good at doing different voices, sound effects, silly faces, etc. 🙂 I love it when even my youngest (nearly 18 months) pulls out a book she’s heard a few times before and “reads” (in baby-speak, of course) with the same inflections as when I’ve read it to her!
melissa(dot)shoop(at)gmail(dot)com
I’m a good mom because I have a lot of patience. As a mom to a 1,2,3 and 4 year old, you have to have a lot of that. I always think of my children before anyone and anything else and that gives me comfort knowing that they are loved and happy and that I’ll never stop striving to be a better person for them.
I have had to sacrifice a lot for my little guy, however I have also gained so much.
I’m a good mom because I let my daughter be herself. Pick outfits that don’t match and crazy hairstyles!
Sarah.heydinger@gmail.com
I feel like a good mom because I have gotten to know my babies wants and needs, and can easily respond to them and (usually) make her happy. Big smiles from my 3 month old when I get her from her crib in the morning reinforce my feelings!!
I think I am a good mom because I love my kids! I make mistakes but at the end of the day there is no one that loves them more than I do.
I put my children first. If I am starving and haven’t eaten in hours and about to pass out, they will eat first. If I have been up all night with the baby and my toddler wakes up and is ready to go, then so am I. If I haven’t taken a shower in a week and they need baths as well, then they go first. I will gladly be starving, stinky, and tired so that my children get everything the need, always!
nshelbyj@netscape.net
My 13 year old says I’m a good mom because I take care of 5 kids without complaining. My 3 year old says I’m a good mommy because I help her make cupcakes. ddumplin at gmail dot com
I think a good mama needs to give her all to her kids. She needs love them, care for them, and provide for them. However (and this is something that is often overlooked) a good mama needs to take care of herself and her needs, too. A tired, worn out, sick, or hungry mama can’t be all that she needs to be for her kids.
jdeemarie @ gmail.com
I’m one good mum because I tell my kids and show them everyday as much as possible how much I love them. I’m sick right now from kissing an infected 4 year old! But he’s worth it…
canyland121@hotmail.copm
Being a new mom I can’t say too much yet but I would have to say it is knowing what my baby needs and trying to make him laugh as much as possible. 🙂
I’m a mamma of a very active 3 year old and due in Aug with #2! Using CD and BG 4.0 are my FAVE diaper by far!
bcm_ac@yahoo.com
I’m a good mom because I know how to cuddle! I know just how to hold our son (4.5 months) to make him feel safe and snuggly and drop off to sleep- no matter what time it might be! It doesn’t hurt that I love those moments the best in my whole day!
I’m the mama of an active duty soldier’s children. Enough said.
Like the original blog post says, there are so many great moms in this CD community!! Makes me smile to know there are so many people that feel great about being the best mom they can be- that’s how I feel about myself, too. I’m proud that I work hard to let my daughter know I will always be here to love, help and support her while I strive to give her the space to learn her own way. I try to do a little better each day.
I’m Lisa.
cntrygrllam (at) aol (dot)com
When I found out I was pregnant I wasn’t sure what to think. I was a wonderful aunt but didn’t think I could be a mom. I was afraid I wouldn’t do things right. Now that my son is one, I have realized I am the best mom anyone could ask for. I love to spend my days watching him explore and figure things out. I allow him to explore the world around him but set limits and teach him whats right and wrong. What he can and cannot touch. We travel as much as possible to see other surroundings and get new perspectives on life around us. I am not only a GREAT MOM but an awesome aunt to my 7 nieces and nephews who I treat as my own children.
I’m a good mum because I am constantly thinking about my son and ways that I can help him adjust to growing into a healthy, happy adult. I spend a lot of my free time with him and he has developed into a confident, independent four year old. Now I’m pregnant with my second son and I’m a good mum to him already because I’ve chosen to use cloth diapers!
i feel like i’m great at playing with my kids. i remember what it was like being young and that helps so much.
Wow, a lot of ladies said “patience.” This is something I aspire to have more of. 🙂 One thing that, I feel, makes me a good mom is that I let my husband be a good dad. We share play time with our son as well as responsibilities so that he has two very present parents in his life. It has been challenging at times as it would be much easier to just take charge and dedicate everything “baby” to myself, but it has been very rewarding as well.
I’m a good mum because I’m raising my 16 month old to know and follow the Lord, pray for her daily and try and show God’s love to her in everything I do.
I am one good mum because I try to give my daughter the best Opportunities. We read every day and I take time out of my day to play with her, and try to expose her toas many new experiences as possible
Heididaily at gmail dot com
I’m a good mum, according to my son, because I am the “best cookie maker EVER”. He is 4 lol 🙂
blondie0620@aol.com
I am the best mama I can be! My boy is nearly two months old now and I feel like we have known each other forever. I am a good mum because I treat my son with love and listen to him when he tells me what he needs. I am letting him unfold in a most beautiful way.
-helena@studio32.com
Taking the time to appreciate the everyday small things makes you realize how much you have. I have a wonderful husband and I hope our children strive for what we have surrounded them with for their childhoods.
jen@kalvoda.com
I’m a good ‘mum’ because like every other mum out there, I love, kiss, and say, “I love you,’ to my son every single day!
I’m one good mum because I pray for my children daily, and love them unconditionally.
sarabell10@hotmail.com
I know I am not the best mom, a lot of things that a mom must do does not come naturally to me. What makes me a good mom is that I always do the best I am capable of and I love my kids fiercely and will do anything for them.
I love being a momma…..I have been one for a long time!!! but am kinda new to cloth diapering!!! and ABSOLUTELY love it….
bldavis629@msn.com
I’m not a mom, yet, but I know a lot of them. The best of them go great lengths to make sure their children know God and know Truth. They do what they can to raise their children to be better than themselves, even if their childhood was as good as it could be. They take the rough times in stride and know that those times make the other times that much more precious. And above all, they remember to love. They discipline in love, provide in love, and at the end of the day, tuck their children in with a warm heart. There’s a lot of things I won’t know about motherhood until it happens…but I plan to strive to be as good a mum as the ones around me!
I’m one good mom because I continue to breastfeed my daughter, despite having to cut out a lot of foods from my diet, since she has food allergies. I don’t want to miss out on the bond and giving her what I have to give her. I’m one good mom because I put fluff on my kids bums and didn’t give up when we’ve encountered hurdles. I’m one good mom because I provide love and disciple to my children.
I share *my* ice cream. That’s love 😉
Well, I know I’m not the greatest mom, but I strive to be the greatest I can be for my babies. Parenting is an ever-changing challenge, and we’re all learning as we go – for good and bad.
I think I’m a good parent because I try every day to be a better mother than my own. I constantly tell my daughter that’ mommy loves you.’ My own mother was abusive and manipulative and I never want my own child to feel as I did growing up–she will never fear me or wonder if I even like her.
I am so blessed to have 2 precious little boys. I didn’t grow up in the most ideal of homes, and before I had my first son struggled with a lot of those issues and habits. Just before he was born I realized that I need to change things about myself, so that I don’t make the same mistakes my parents did. I also realized that change doesn’t happen in a day, but it’s a process that my heavenly Father has been helping me through the last 3yrs. I think I’m ‘one good mum’ because I trust the Lord, I will raise my children to know Him, and I want to always be teachable and open to correction, and I want to teach them with gentleness and patience. It’s smart to recognize and learn from your own mistakes, but it’s wisdom that allows you to learn from (not judge) other’s mistakes.
Some days it’s hard to think of a reason I’m a “good mum.” Today, though? Today I’ll say I’m a good mum because even when we don’t have any “extras,” I do everything I can to provide my family’s needs. We always have {clean} clothes, food on the table, and enough hugs to make it to bedtime. 🙂
I’m “one good mum” because I love my daughter for who she is:) I don’t expect her to do everything perfect the first time and right when she is supposed to according to the books…I guide her but let her figure things out, which at 18 months is pretty entertaining!
Hmmm, what make me a good mom… Every day I wake up and try to make it the best day I can! My amazing son makes me want to be the best parent to him that I can be. I try to be patient, to communicate what is going on/ what I expect, and I try to every day to make sure that I have helped him to make good memories! I always ask myself “is this something that he will want to look back on?”. I want my son to have better memories and more smiles then I had growing up.
Letting a 15 month old learn to feed herself. It takes a lot of patience and I hate the mess. I love the look of pride on her face, though! This is the first of many times when letting her be independent will be hard on me, but it also makes me proud.
I am a good mom because I explain everything to my daughter. She is 2 and has the vocab of a much older child. We tell her about everything, in ways she can understand. I am also a good mom because i am not perfect. I don’t know everything, but I try to do my best with her. mellorlacey at yahoo dot com
I would say I’m a good mom because I’m laid back, make sure he always knows I love him and I’m there for him, and I try my best to give him a happy and healthy life.
skklemm@gmail.com
I’m one good mom because I try to educate myself to handle my daughter’s and soon-to-be son’s needs the best way possible.
sugarcat413@verizon.net
I feel like I’m one good mum because my while I give my daughter roots, I’m also teaching her to fly. I don’t hover, I allow her to grow. And because I grew up with plenty of opportunities to be independent and adventurous, I am determined to let her lead an adventurous life! I worked with lions in Africa, maybe she’ll work with snakes in the Amazon! <3 Sky's the Limit!
I try to be the best mom that I can, and have been blessed with the sweetest little girl who makes it all worthwhile. Everytime I change the diaper laundry over, I think of who I’m doing it for.
taralucida at hotmail dot com
What makes me such a good mum? First of all I’m crazy about my son’s daddy, my husband. I think that’s the best gift you can give a child. I’m committed to putting my relationship with my sonny above housework and my own interests. I’m committed to making this the best childhood any boy could have. We play together, read together, snuggle together, and just take in the ownder of life and growing together. I’m one good mum.
Hillarey
perpetualjoy.08@gmail.com
I think that I am a good mom because I give all of myself to my girls. I make sure that they know how special they are to me everyday. I try in every way to give them the best that I can and allow them the opportunity to explore their world while feeling safe and loved! My girls really are my world!
I read my little Maximus, 3 months, stories in English and in Spanish. I’d like him to know about and be proud of his heritage. More importantly, my first reaction when I find myself asking how I should handle a situation is to ask, “what would I have wanted/needed at this age?”
im one good mom because i am choosing natural options for my children and making their experience in this world as peaceful and calm as possible. i am a cloth diapering, babywearing, hypnobirthing, placenta encapsulating, natural birth junkie and mother of two. i hope that i am privileged to bear many more little miracles and experience them in my life. email at journeysdaughter@yahoo.com
I make sure my kids know they are loved every day. I don’t remember hearing “I love you” from my mom very many times in my childhood. But that’s something my kids and I say on a daily basis.
I’m a good mum because I teach my children about the love of Jesus Christ. I homeschool and stay at home with them.
I think what makes me a good mom (to be) is that we have waited 5 LONG years for this little miracle to arrive and now he’ll be here any day! I can’t wait!
I think I am the best mom I can be because I do my best everyday to love all my children..hug them..give them so much love! After all…I think that is what every human being is longing for Love & Compassion even if they are to young to express their wants.
kaseyspeeed@yahoo.com
What makes me a good mum?
My daughter is a Blessing from the Lord, entrusted to me for a time.
I realize that without Christ, I cannot do it.
My prayer for my daughter is that she would be His daughter, to love and serve Him with all her heart. My job as the Momma is to model this for her, instruct her, and love her as Christ loves me. I am constantly humbled by my inadequacies, however, I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me. With that I confidently can say, I am a good mum.
Ruthie
ruthievincill at gmail dot com
I’m a good mom because I devote my whole day to my daughter. We play together, eat together, snuggle together, go for walks together etc.
We have so much fun every day. <3
I’m a good mum because I stay home with my girls . . . and I’m not a bad cook either =)
I’m a good mom because my kids say so! They say thanks for dinner, you’re a good mom! Thanks for helping me with my homework, you’re a good mom! thanks for making me pancakes, you’re a good mom! Thanks for playing legos, you’re a good mom! Thanks for playing playdough, you’re a good mom! And this list goes in and on! :o)
Mom2_3boyzz at yahoo dot come
I left an unfortunately bad marriage to protect my children and myself and am now desperately trying to keep my head above water to take care of these 4 precious babes. As hard as it is, I know they need me to push through so that we all come out the other side healthy and safe.
What makes a good mom is someone who is loving. My mom was always there for us. She had fun projects for us, let us make messes and learn so many things. She encouraged us to use our minds and explore. I always felt loved. That’s what I would like to do for my daughter. I feel like I’m doing a pretty good job so far.
oops! forgot^ Heather Gentit
Hgentit@emich.edu
I am one good mom because I appreciate everything about my 5 week old son; from the coos and snuggles to the crying and Poopy diapers. After 3 years of fertility treatments and several losses, every moment with him is precious!
I feel I’m a good mom because I know that my daughter’s health/safety/well-being should always be the first priority in my(and her Daddy’s) life. Sure, plenty of sacrifices must be made, the house isn’t spotless, no five course meals being made, BUT as long as there is a smiling, (breast-)fed, dry(thanks to cloth!)baby- I’m perfectly happy.
I let my son build extensive railroad tracks around our entire downstairs and let him keep them up, even when I’m tripping over them. That makes me a good mom. 🙂
I think I am a good mom because after 5 long years of multiple therapies every week and lots of long hospital stays and I still keep cheering on every one of my oldest son’s milestones that he reaches. We are still trying to potty train and we will have on BIG party when he masters it!!!! His little brother and little sister will be sooo excited!
Julie
lief_julie@hotmail.com
I’m a good mom because I try my hardest to be and as long as I’m doing my best I figure we will all end up ok in the end. Only a mom to one 20 month old, but another one is coming anyday now.
I’m a great mom for raising our 3 kids while my husband has been deployed 4 times during their lives. I try not to let them see me cry over what is going on. They know they are loved and they tell me I’m “the best mommy ever”.
Tracie
traciedurocher@hotmail.com
I’m a good mom because I try hard everyday. I find joy in the little things and make sure my three boys know how much I love them. I am just so grateful to be a mom. It is the best part of my life.
andreamkrause@yahoo.com
I think I am a good “mum” because I am always trying to make things better for my 5 children and help them learn what is truly important in life – like faith, and family! It makes me so proud when I get compliments on their behavior almost everywhere we go, and when they take care of each other! It makes me think, despite my many failures and shortcomings, I must be doing something right!
mr.and.mrs.bragg@gmail.com
I’m a good mom because sometimes pizza for breakfast is OK!
vrclay30 at gmail . com
I am a good mum, because I am highly energetic and always happy. EVEN if I’m mad I put on a smile for my lil man. I try to be the best I can everyday, but I also know how to balance. Right now its easy, I know as our family grows that balancing is going to have to be adjusted.
Our son is one happy baby, I am breastfeeding, we were co sleeping til now @ 9mo, and very attentive, but not overly protected. As a first time mom, I can say “not bad”…well so far anyway 😉
I ‘think’ what makes me a good mom is that I don’t put myself/capabilities inside of a box. If I relied on my own strength, I probably would have stopped after one baby. But I don’t, which is why were are pregnant with our fourth and fostering/adopting. Our kids love growing up in a big family.
I’m a really relaxed mom and I think that has helped me be a better parent in a lot of ways. I had patience with my newborns, and I relaxed and didn’t worry about weight gain, etc. – I think this lead to a great breastfeeding/cosleeping/natural parenting relationship for me and my children.
Lindsay Johnson
lindsay.m.johnson@gmail.com
Today’s “good mum moment:” tickles and kissed before nap time. Proudest overall “good mum accomplishment:” breast feeding when I thought I never would (going on one year)!
I think I am a good mom because I work night shift so my babies do not have to go to daycare. I have a 3 year old and a 7 month old. I am able to nurse my youngest still, almost exclusively.
I’m a good mom because I’m consistent (it’s the teacher in me!) I also successfully made it through a year deployment doing everything on my own.
I am one good mom because I know how to make my little guy laugh even he needs it most!
I am one good Mum because I can function well on very little sleep! We are going on month 11 of a deployment, with a 3.5 year old and a 7 month old. I can’t wait until it is over and I can look back and truly be amazed! I did the transition from 1 to 2 on my own (NOT easy), and still kept a balance in our home. The next challenge will be becoming a family of FOUR when my husband gets home! I have the best job in the world.
My husband is an amazing dad. He does all the cooking and takes care of me so I can focus on our little one.
I take pride in the fact that my child knows she has a mommy and daddy that love her, and most of all that love eachother. Children find comfort and security in there parents relationship,and I work hard everyday to make sure she knows that. I love being a Mommy, its the best job in the world!
Ivy Freimuth
IDuffy08@hotmail.com
I think Im a good Mama because i refuse to let myself get down.. Its not easy being married to the military with 4 kids under 5.. But if i get blue the kids will see it and i cant let that happen!
We always hate to talk about ourselves but here goes… I feel like I am a good mum, well because my kids tell me so!! 🙂 But really, I have a son with special needs that we do things one day at a time. When he looks at me and tells me he loves me, that’s it right there buddy- that’s the stuff! We can’t sweat the small stuff, and I don’t! I have left my career to get to be with my 3 wonderful children. I couldn’t think of a better job! Life is sooo GOOD! armisteadfamily@cfl.rr.com
This is the only area in my life that I feel like I have the right to brag in. My son is extraordinarily cute, sweet, kind, and smart. Even if it was only my eggs and his father’s sperm that made this so, I’m still good!
I always apologize to him. I forgive myself for making mistakes and I explain to him that I made a mistake (yelling, being in a bad mood). I acknowledge that I’m not perfect, but I also point out ways that he can help me (not throwing fits over broken crackers, for instance). I feel that this way he will never feel pressure to be perfect, but will understand through my own efforts that it is important to forgive yourself and try harder.
I’m a teacher, and I think that learning how to deal with LOTS of kids at once has really prepared me to deal with just one kid. *I hope* Obviously I’ve never dealt with a newborn (this is our first!), so that will be an experience unto itself, I definitely know that my classroom management principles of clear rules and clear consequences that are enforced (!) will come in handy once I have a headstrong toddler. Because i KNOW he’s gonna be headstrong! So I think that’s going to help me to be a good mom! That and lots of love 🙂
I am one good mom because I have the happiest little boy in the world.
I’m one good mom because I would do anything for my babies…but most importantly because I tell them they are loved, they are special, and I am proud of them!
I am one good mum because I love my baby so much and will always do whatever I can for him!
I’m a good mum because I do my best to lavish my baby with love and not let him be affected by the negative things going on in my life right now. When I’m inpatient or getting frustrated I don’t let myself say anything but “i love you” and other sweet things to him until i calm down. I want my baby to grow up knowing he is loved!! <3
flowerinro@yahoo.com
I just go through each day with my little one day by day and try to teach her something new every day. She is such a smart and happy baby that it makes life wonderful. Seeing her little face smiling is my lifelong dream.
I think I am a good mom cause I have raised some pretty good kids. My 10, 7 and 6 year old always get compliments for being polite and sweet. I have always taught them to care for others and themselves. Its nice to hear from others that I have suceeded. Now we have a new baby and it is wonderful to watch them interact with him and gives me ease that I know I can raise another great baby 🙂
I’m a good Mom because I get down on the floor and play as much as I can with my son. He loves playing one-in-one and I love seeing him happy.
etwilkins at gmail dot com
I am one good mum because I always put my family first; teach love, balance, and safety at every opportunity; value flexibility and fun; and recognize that parenthood is a learning process and it’s ok if you screw up sometimes too.
I hate tooting my own horn I really do.But I would say what makes me a great mom like most moms out there I will do ANYTHING on earth for my child. You see, My son Keegan was diagnosed with brain cancer a year ago last week. Last week he has a follow up MRI which showed a new spot on his spine. he went into surgery yesterday where they confirmed it is most likely recurrent disease (which is bad). So I got on the computer and started to write different organizations that are leading the way in Brain Tumor research and cure. I will go bankrupt till I die to save my child from this horrible disease!
I feel like I am “One good Mum” because I listen to my own momma instinct and ignore the people who are full of “advice”. Yes we co-sleep, yes she’s is STILL nursing at almost 1 year. She isn’t “Spoiled” she is Loved.
I’m a good mom because I do everything I can to keep my baby feeling safe, secure, and loved in the fragile first few months of life. You guys are right, it is hard to brag. Just think about it as stretching your “feel good about yourself” muscles, because sometimes you don’t as much as you should!
I am one good mum because I have sacrificed my career, my body, my sleep, pretty much my whole life for my girls and I don’t even care!!
ekallenberg at gmail dot com
I am one good mum because I love my baby and I do the best I can…and always try to do better!
I think I am “one good mum” because I am willin to give up all of my wants and needs to make sure she receives the best of everything I can give her. Whether it be feeding her the best and healthiest options, down to working a second job so she can go to the best preschool. I don’t settle for her, because every child deseves the best start to life.
I just try to raise my child to love the Lord. It’s not an easy task, but it’s the job of a good mum.
I’m a good mom because I’m doing my best NOT to break the baby.
because I love ’em 🙂
I think that I’m a “good mum”. Because I try and do what is best for my son – and at all times. And I give the best kisses 🙂
I’m still learning, but so far the past 8 months have been the best in my life!!
alexandradavis05 at hotmail dot com
I’m present with my daughter. We spend hours on the floor reading books, playing pretend in her kitchen, and any other game she can think of.
This is hard! But I think I am a good mom because I have made our family my number one job. I have sacrificed my career to stay home and raise our children. Some days I love it and some days are hard, but I wouldn’t have it any other way!
monkeysbunz@gmail.com
Because I try to be just like my mom. I think I turned out pretty decent:)
I think I am one good mum because I am always there for my son. When he is healthy I am there to play with him, when he is sick I am there to comfort him. We laugh together and just enjoy one another. He has a new baby brother coming in just one month and the transition will not be easy but we will make it through because I am one good mum!
patience, courage, good sense of humor, more patience and a lot of love.
I read this quote the other day:
“The most important thing she’d learned over the years was that there was no way to be a perfect mother and a million ways to be a good one. ”
-Jill Churchill
I’m not a perfect mom for my seven kids, but I am a good mom. Among other things, we have a lot of fun being silly together. I think that helps my kids learn life doesn’t have to always be serious. It’s important to take some time to have some fun and reconnect with those you love.
trishabear1970 at yahoo dot com
I’m a good mom because I have tremendous amounts of patience. I also make sure to put my child’s needs in front of mine. He can’t take care of himself so I have to do it for him.
meg6784 at hotmail dot com
i think i’m a good mum because i make the best choices for my daughter that work for us, and always make sure it’s an educated decision!
I love my children. It’s simple, but it the reason for everything we do as parents. It’s why we stay up to monitor a fever when our eyes can barely stay open, or get up extra early to sneak a special note into their backpack. I’m not perfect, but I take care of my children, do the things I feel are best and I let them know that I’m there for them and love them very much.
My husband is an amazing stay-at-home Dad. It’s hard being a working mom to feel as though I’m caring for our daughter as much as him because I’m gone during the work week but I can say what makes me a good mom is that I love my little girl with all my heart and I love her daddy too!
I am a good father (husband) for 2 reasons. Good father because I love spending time with my son especially walking to the park and kicking the soccer ball together. And good husband because I enter drawings such as these for my wife.
it’s hard to brag, but i think being laid back and taking each day in stride is important. it doesn’t always happen but i try!
‘Coz I put cloth diapers on your lil bum, bum, that’s what makes me a good mum mum!
This is odd, bragging on yourself but here goes. I think I am the best at cuddling with my sweet girl. It’s my favorite when she rests her head on my shoulder and we stop everything for a minute to cuddle.
I’m one good mum because even on days that I am exhausted and in pain and the last thing I want is a nine-month-old biter sucking on my boob I get through it and feed him what is best for him. I’m kidding a little bit. I also think my husband and I are great parents because we are very laid back. I think he senses that and it makes him a laid back guy.
I am one good mum because I love my kids unconditionally! I also BFed both of them starting them off on the right track!
Tvpg at aol dot com
I am “one good mum” because I am always there for my babies! :o) (I also think I am good because I breastfeed, cloth diaper, make all their food (dont buy jarred stuff), etc.) 🙂 Thanks!
I’d love to be entered! I think one of the things that makes me a good mom to my son is that I don’t feel “inconvenienced” by him. He is my first priority because I WANT him to be and I enjoy that—I don’t feel like I “need to get away” from him. He is such an amazing joy & blessing!
I think one thing that makes me a good mom is that I am laid back. Things don’t have to be perfect here, which allows my children to relax and just be kids. I love my family! aprilkek at verizon dot net
I’m “one good mum” because of my unconditional love.
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I’m pretty laid back as a new mom, which has surprised even me. :~) In all other areas of life, I’m very organized and a bit OCD, but since becoming a mama, I’ve learned to prioritize. I have also become much more conscious of what’s natural and/or organic versus synthetic, and learning to make good choices for our baby – and for us!
It is so hard to brag on yourself when there is always more you feel you should/could be doing. I think what makes me a good mom is that I am intumescent to my little girl’s needs. I am an all natural mom: homebirthing, breastfeeding, cloth diapering kind of girl. I love my family & try to put them first above my other priorities. Above all, I love my family. – aparker528@gmail.com
My super mum super power is hiccup erradication. My former preemie still gets the hiccups when he is overstimulated, and untreated, they can get severe enough to make him cry and spit up. When those villainous hiccups strike, all it takes is his favorite blankie and super mama snuggles for his little body to relax enough to chase those hiccups away. Not even super grandma, for whom my son has a special soft spot, can fight those hiccups so fast as I can.
I try my best, everyday. Every morning is a new opportunity to do better than the previous day (or for my kids to do better than the previous day!)
My 2.5 year old girl loves to play in mud, rocks, dirty creek water, mud puddles, with worms, bugs, etc. She has no fear of heights, rarely cries when she falls down, and yet has amazing empathy when one of us has a headache or doesn’t appear to feel well. She’s so loved by everyone, and her beautiful spirit has led us to go for another baby, which should arrive sometime in August! I don’t always feel like a good mom, but when she behaves well in public and people smile at her, it makes me feel like every sacrifice is worth it!
I love being a mommy and I feel that my ability to easily read my baby’s cues makes me ‘one good mum’! My little Jakob (at 4.5 months) feels so secure knowing that his every need is cared for and has become the most happy and laid back baby I’ve ever experienced. I love being his mommy!
Well, it’s hard to brag when we all know we aren’t perfect. But I take some comfort/pride in the fact that I never stop trying to be a better person and make the world a better place for my children.
I really pride myself in my patience. As the mother of spirited 3-year old boy and a curious 7-month old boy, patience is an essential tool for getting through the day. Even when they push my to my max I can honestly say that I tried! Hey we’re not perfect!!
So patience and the fact that I am a wicked good wooden train track builder! You should see some of the layouts I come up with for Thomas and his friends to ride the rails on! The envy of all Thomas the Train lovers everywhere!
Caroline Butcher
fantasia1117@aol.com